Managing The Stress Of Pet Surgery

Our sweet baby Oreo required surgery this week to get her spayed. I am always so emotional when my fuzzy babies require trips to the vet, it breaks my heart to deprive them of food, water, and socializing with Beans. But because we had to keep her on a fast it was necessary. She was upset, but we made it through the night. I’m glad it was just a typical procedure and she didn’t have an injury or illness involved but it’s always good to be prepared for anything. Here’s how to navigate the process with confidence and care.

1. Preparing for Surgery Day

Before the big day arrives, your vet will give you instructions about food, water, and medications. Follow them closely, these guidelines are crucial for your pet’s safety during anesthesia. You can also ease the process by packing a vet bag ahead of time.

Vet Trip Essentials:

• 🐾 Leash or secure carrier (comfortably sized, with a soft blanket inside) we like this pet carrier for safety and security. 
• 💧 Water bottle and collapsible bowl
• 🍪 Small bag of treats for after the procedure or vet visit
• 🧻 Wipes or small towel for accidents or cleanup
• 🩺 Medical paperwork (including vaccination records or previous prescriptions)
• 🧢 Comfort item such as a toy or familiar-smelling blanket
• 🪪 Pet ID and contact info in case of emergencies
• 🐕 Muzzle (if needed)—not for punishment, but for safety if your pet is anxious

2. Reducing Anxiety Before and After Surgery

Pets can sense your emotions. If you’re nervous, they’re likely to feel uneasy too. Try to project calm energy, speak in soothing tones, and stick to familiar routines. A little normalcy helps reduce their stress before heading to the vet. I had to lock up Oreo to keep her separated for fasting but kept calm and gave her lots of love, she was safe and felt loved and that’s all that matters.

After surgery, your pet will likely be groggy or disoriented. Keep them in a quiet, comfortable space away from other pets or loud noises. Offer reassurance, but also give them room to rest and recover. I had to give Oreo my daughter’s room to be her recovery room as it is the closest to mine and has the least amount of things for her to jump on and try to climb while recovering. We made sure the bed was blocked off so she couldn’t get stuck underneath and ensured she had a walking path free of clutter and items that could get caught on her cone.

3. Keeping Your Pet Safe During Recovery

Once you’re home, your job is to create a healing environment. Follow your vet’s post-op instructions carefully, every detail matters.

Safety and Comfort Tips:

• 🛏️ Set up a soft, warm recovery area with limited space so they don’t overexert themselves.
• 💊 Administer medications exactly as prescribed. Don’t skip doses or add supplements without approval.
• 🍲 Offer food and water slowly. Some pets may feel nauseous right after surgery.
• 🚫 Prevent licking or chewing stitches. Use an e-collar (cone) or recovery suit if necessary. We got this adorable space themed cone for Oreo and it is perfect for a small kitty like her and is soft and secure. 
• 🕐 Limit activity. Keep walks short and avoid jumping, running, or playing until cleared by the vet.
• 👀 Watch for warning signs like swelling, redness, or changes in appetite—call your vet if anything seems off.

4. Listen to Your Vet, They’re Your Best Resource

It can be tempting to search online for advice, but every pet and procedure is unique. Trust the expertise of your veterinary team, they know your animal’s history and specific needs. Don’t hesitate to ask questions, take notes, or request clarification about recovery timelines, dietary changes, or behavioral shifts.

Your vet’s guidance will help you avoid complications and ensure a smoother, safer recovery for your pet.

I think one of the scariest things I have seen when a pet gets surgery is how they behave and look after they get released to you. They are usually on heavy medication and are completely out of it with messed up looking eyes, slow breathing, very strange body movements, and it can be scary. Just keep an eye on them during recovery and it will slowly disappear. You can see how Oreo looked when she was on her way home here on our Instagram, she was really messed up. 

5. Take Care of Yourself, Too

Pet parents often neglect their own emotions during this process. It’s normal to feel scared or anxious, but remember, you’re doing everything you can. Preparing, listening, and staying calm all help your pet feel secure and supported.

A few deep breaths, a cup of tea, or a quiet walk while your pet rests can help you reset and recharge. Speak with other pet owners who have gone through it if you need reassurance. 

In the End

Pet surgery can be stressful, but preparation and mindfulness make all the difference. By staying organized, following your vet’s directions, and creating a calm recovery space, you’ll give your furry friend the best possible chance to heal comfortably and quickly.

With your love and care, they’ll be back to their playful, happy selves in no time. ❤️🐾